ROMANS 505 Chapter 14
How to deal with “weak” brethren
Remember our outline of Romans. Chapters 1-5 cover salvation,
chapters 6-8 deal with our walk, and chapters 9-11 talk of Israel. This
final section, chapters 12-16, gives a picture of how a person lives when he
thinks with a renewed mind, applying the doctrine learned in chapters
1-11. (Rom 12:1,2; Eph 4:22-24)
This chapter will show that my life is between me and God. Many people
may be involved in my life, but I have only one Judge, and that is
God. So I should live to please Him, not just myself or other people.
And I should not expect people to live to please me - or to live by
my standards. They are accountable to God, not to me.
Knowing this gives terrific freedom. The approval of people need
no longer control us. We can love people because we aren’t depending on
them, so we don’t need to control them, or even approve of them.
This chapter is not dealing with obvious disobedience like
murder, fornication or cheating, but with things that are not so clearly
stated in scripture, such as what we eat, drinking alcohol, smoking, going
to church every Sunday or not, or going to dances and movies. Watch how the
doctrine we have learned in chapters 1-11 is now applied to such
details of our lives.
Romans 14:1-9
1 Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, but
not to doubtful disputations.
2 For one believeth that he may eat all things:
another who is weak, eateth herbs.
3 Let not him that eateth despise him that
eateth not; and let not him which eatheth not judge him that eateth:
for God hath received him.
4 Who art thou that judgeth another man’s servant?
To his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for
God is able to make him stand.
5 One man esteemeth one day above another:
another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded
in his own mind.
6 He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the
Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it.
He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that
eatheth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.
7 For none of us liveth to himself, and no man dieth
to himself.
8 For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and
whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die,
we are the Lord’s.
9 For to this end Christ both died, and rose, and
revived, that he might be Lord both of the dead and living.
(Vs 1.) One who is “weak in the faith”
is a saint (Rom 1:7; Ps 50:5) who does not have
much understanding of the doctrine for today that makes up our faith. We
should accept him as a brother, even if we don’t agree with everything he
thinks or does. We should not get together with him just to argue or prove
him wrong. (II Tim 2:23-25; I Tim 1:4,5)
(Vs 2.) Verses 3 and 5 give examples of the kind of things we
should not dispute about.
In this present dispensation (revealed in
Paul’s writings, Eph 3:1-5) we can eat anything.
(I Tim 4:3-5; Col 2:16,20-23) But in the
past dispensation, Israel had very strict dietary laws. Many
things were absolutely forbidden. (Lev 11) A
saint who is weak in understanding of our dispensation, may still be trying
to live under the rules of the former age. (Gal
3:24,25; 4:9-11)
Paul is not saying it is okay to live under the former laws, but is
telling us how to deal with people who do.
(Vs 3.) Don’t look down on (despise) a fellow saint who lacks
understanding of dispensations. Neither should he condemn (judge) the
liberty we have. (Gal 5:1,13; I Cor 6:12) God
has equally received us both in Christ. (I Cor
12:12,21-25)
(Vs 4.) We stand individually before God.
(Ps 73:22-26) He is the Master and Judge.
His verdict is what counts, not yours or mine.
(I Cor 4:3-5; Mat 7:1-5; Rom 2:1)
God’s verdict is “Not Guilty” for every person who has trusted Christ to pay
for his sin. (Rom 4:22-25&8:33,34) We stand
100% righteous in His sight because we are in Christ,
(Gal 3:26-28; I Cor 12:12,13) not
because we have more understanding or are somehow more “spiritual” than
others. (Rom 3:22-24)
(Vs 5.) In time past, God required Israel to keep the Sabbath
(Saturday) and other holy days. (Lev 23; Ex 23:14-17)
The Sabbath was a sign of their covenant with God, and anyone who
worked on the Sabbath was to be killed. (Ex 31:12-17)
Now in our age of Gentile opportunity (Rom
11:13,25) we are not under Israel’s laws, (Rom
9:4 & 6:14) and all days are alike. (Col
2:16,17)
But not all saints understand this. We should be willing and prepared
to share the truth we know (II Cor 2:14; Phil 2:15,16)
but it is not our business to force people to see it.
(I Cor 3:6,7) So be “fully
persuaded in your own mind”. In other words, know for sure,
but do not expect everybody else to agree with you.
(Vs 6.) In matters of the conscience, do whatever you think the
scripture (God) is saying. As your understanding of scripture grows, you may
change what you are doing now, but always live according to the
understanding you have of God’s word. God sees the heart and knows our
sincerity and motives. (Heb 4:12,13)
(Vs 7 & 8.) Since you have been purchased by God, your life
is no longer yours alone. Your life is now between you and God. “What? Know
ye not that …. ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price:
Therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.”
(I Cor 6:19,20)
God also participates in our death. (Ps
116:15) “We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent
from the body, and to be present with the Lord.”
(II Cor 5:8)
God is involved with us at all times, during life and after death. No matter
what happens or what we do, believers will forever belong to God.
(Rom 8:38,39; Phil 1:6)
(Vs 9.) Christ died and rose again to make this possible.
“What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be
against us?”
(Rom 8:31)
M. Dent
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